We aren't. Just face it.
I was on-line in an IRC channel tonite, one of my regular haunts. We're having polite conversation, a bunch of us, about what I don't recall now. One of the guys suddenly says "/me checks imnotaboy to see if they have a penis of a vagina."
BAM.
Right out there in the open.
I know what many of you are saying: "It's a chatroom, it's not real life." Bullshit. I have never felt so violated in my life.
This is the dread of every ts person out there, I think. I happen to be post-op, but still, to have someone want to check your panties to see what's in there is such a violation. No one would think of doing that to a woman-born woman. It's only the TSs that garner such treatment. "What's down there, anyway?" is a common enough question on people's minds that I hear it enough on blogs and comments.
I am feeling so ill. I don't feel safe. I feel violated in the worst possible way save for rape itself.
And this is someone I thought was my friend. Shows just how friends can act.
Needless to say I won't be going back to that channel for awhile.
Friday, February 16, 2007
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i dont really like the whole "girls born girls" label.. I mean arent all TG that are born mtf actually born girls?
Its a pity that TG are considered outside both sexes by many. it is similar to being a foreigner.
Thanks for your blog, i like it
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